Psychologist and Christian author Kevin Leman has a terrific book entitled Sex Begins in the Kitchen. He wrote it to convince men that women are wooed throughout the day by all the little things that contribute to making us feel valued and loved. When we feel those things, we are far more open to physical intimacy when opportunity strikes.
In contrast, when we can’t reach our bed because of the mountains of clutter and mess in the way, it’s hard to get in the mood. All we women can think about in that moment is our ever-growing list of to-dos. When Hubby marks off some of our to-dos, it clears not only our list but our minds. We can concentrate better on that guy who wielded a broom moments before and find him pretty darn attractive.
What chore could your husband do that would turn you on?